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How to Dress Yourself Fashionably

Women in their 30’s are fluctuated between their personal changes and their careers. When a woman is in her 30’s, she is not a girl anymore and she has to be mature both in her family and her career. She would be several children’s mother and begin to be responsible for her children, husband, parents and friends. She is so busy maintaining the balance of the family and career that she wouldn’t have enough time to care for her appearance. That’ll be bad. In modern society, out of fashion means you will be less competitive both in your career and family. So, this short article is going to give some fashion tips for women in 30’s.

Women over 30 are different from 20’s girls. You have much to think about. Now you are a career woman and you know how hard it is to earn money, and you are a mother and also know how hard it is to raise up your family. When buying things such as clothes and accessories, you will be more practical. That doesn’t mean you should wear cheap fashion, with these guidelines, you’ll be able to be fashion.

My first point is how to choose fashion clothing. Women in 20’s are young and they can wear any strange clothing to show their personalities, but women over 30 can’t wear tacky clothes at any cost. Since you might have to take care of kids and you can’t spend much time dressing up or washing clothes, your clothes should be comfortable to wear and easy to clean. Sometimes you have to make a distinction between what to wear at work and what to wear off duty. If you are not required to wear work clothes, wear bright colors such as peach, light blue blouses with pants or A-line skirts to show your passion for your work, but your skirts should at least end blow knees. Pay attention to this: bold colors don’t mean bold styles. If you have already got married, stay away from Low-cut or short clothes such as Low-cut dresses and miniskirts when you are at work. After work, you can dress bright loose T-shirt with Capri pants or a simple blouse with long skirts. When attending evening banquet, you should dress a formal gown that fit your feature and status.

Then keep your eye on the makeup and accessories. You can’t try new cute styles now, no bowknots, no cute earrings. 30’s women should choose jewelry that are elegant and little mature. Avoid carry glitzy handbags, purses or concise handbags are recommended. Maybe you have to wear heels at work, but after work, you should take care of yourself and choose a comfortable pair of flat footwear. As for makeup, you should avoid doing heavy makeup such as bold colors for eye shadows and eye lines. That doesn’t mean a totally plain look devoid of any makeup is good. Your makeup helps you look graceful and femininity.

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5 Critical Fashion Tips For Dating and Attracting Women

It’s not about knowing everything about fashion or following the latest trends. That’s what most people think of when they think of fashion. Sure, knowing the latest trends shows that you keep up with current events and following the latest trends shows that you have access to some financial resources (it’s expensive following the latest trends). But that’s a lot of effort for relatively little return. This short dating manual excerpt will help you dress well to date women you want.

It’s about what looks good on you, and more importantly what makes you look good. Most importantly, it’s about what it communicates about you. The way you dress should communicate something about your lifestyle. The following are some general guidelines that work for a large majority of men. For some men there may be certain social stereotypes they may be targeting (eg: for wannabe Japanese girls, dressing like a japanese pop star would score you major points) but making a list of all these niches would be unproductive.

1. Wear clothes that fit

Clothes that fit are essential when it comes to being able to attract women. A person wearing loose clothes shows that they may not be comfortable with their figure (either they think they’re too slim or too fat). A person wearing tight clothing shows that they are comfortable with themselves and can imply comfort with sexuality. This is important for building attraction in women. As mentioned in the beginning, it’s what your clothes communicate about you that really matters. As such, wearing a form fitting $10 plain shirt can look much better than an oversized $200 shirt.

If you can afford it, I recommend that you also tailor your clothes that don’t fit EXACTLY. If they fit exactly already, that’s ok. But otherwise, tailoring can help clothes fit you better, which then helps you attract women and date women.

2. Each accessory should communicate a story

This is a good way to get conversations started and continued. By wearing interesting items of clothing, you give women who want to talk with you an excuse to start a conversation. By having a story behind the item of clothing instead of it just being a “cool item”, it gives you great conversation material for talking with women you want to date.

For example, in my hotel room last night with two cute asian girls, one girl asked me about my belt. I told her it was a gift from a third girl who knew I was lacking a belt. This shows that I know other girls, and that other girls I know hold me in high regard (enough to give me gifts). This significantly helps in attracting women.

3. Calibrate to situation and audience

In order to figure out how to get what you want in terms of dating women, you first have to understand what it is that you want. If you’re trying to date asian girls who are conservative, you want to wear something that they will find attractive. If you’re going for goth punk rockers, you want to wear something they will find attractive.

Also you have to consider the situation. Wearing dress shirts with big G-chains while trying to meet women in the library, you stand out in a bad way as they may think you are just there to meet women. Wearing pajamas to a high end nightclub shows lack of social calibration and you probably won’t even be able to get in to meet the women inside, so much harder for you to date these women.

4. It’s all in the details

If it looks like it took a lot of effort to make, it’s considered good (keeping taste in mind, of course). When it comes to dating women, details matter. Women notice details on clothing more than men, and additionally, they try to interpret those details. Wearing a piece of clothing with fancy complicated designs (hopefully in good taste) implies higher financial position, all else being equal. A fancy design on a shirt is not a “necessity” for a shirt since the main goal is to cover you and keep you warm. So the fancy design is considered an extra, and it implies that if you’re able to obtain extras then you must be well off enough that you’re not worried about getting the necessities.
This is a major reason why women wear high heels. High heels are not very productive; they make it hard to walk and have bad balance compared to more productive shoes. Yet this is a major reason that women will wear them since it implies higher social status (that they don’t need to any laborious tasks and lead a luxurious life). You should keep in mind this concept not only when learning to attract women but also in all social situations. Be aware of what you indirectly communicate by what you do, dress, and say.

5. How to dress on a budget

My dating manual understands that you may not want to spend a lot of money. These tips reflect that same principle of my dating manual. Even if you’re well off financially, I believe that saving money when possible is a good thing.

It is better to have 2 good outfits you wear often than 50 outfits that look bad and you wear rarely. So instead of getting dozens of average shirts and average jeans, I recommend you get a few outfits that are great instead. You don’t really need a pair of jeans for each day of the week. You can wear the same pair of pants more than once before washing. Shirts are a bit harder to wear more than once in a row, but you can just alternate shirts.

Next is using “core dressing”. Have one or two items that are “core” to your outfit. For example, a jacket or a blazer. Next you dress around that. You can wear different jeans, different shirts, etc. but the item that people associate you with, the core item, is still there. This allows you to cut down on the amount of outfits you buy while still looking good.

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Essential Fashion Tips

Fashion is a popular or the latest style of clothing, decorations, behaviors and designs. Fashion is all around us, from the people you meet at work all the way to the countless fashion shows and bazaars. Most importantly, fashion especially in clothing brings out the appearance and taste of a person. You can be trendy, following the latest trends in design, color and style, or you can belong to the “luxurious” group, wearing on all the branded products, or you can be unique, experimenting with dozen difficult types of matching, colors and bold designs, or you can choose not to care, simply wearing whatever is available, as long as you are covered.

Whichever group you belong to, there is no doubt that you will need some fashion tips to keep you going. Here goes:

1) Keeping up with trends, or at least know the trends

Keep a lookout for the various fashion shows by top designers and brands; find out what is common amongst the many outfits and pieces. Is it the color, the pattern or a certain design that has a certain repetition, that could actually provide you with the main gist about what the designer is focusing on, and that could be your answer to understand the trend. Next, if possible, read fashion magazines as they can provide you with the latest fashion trends in this ever-changing and fast-paced fashion frenzy. If you want to go a step further, you can actually purchase similar items or create the pieces that you have seen in the latest trends. But be careful, this plan could backfire badly, which will be explained further in the next point.

2) Not everything in trend will suit you

You can see a really stunning and alluring dress worn by Jennifer Lawrence, or a dazzling suit worn by Chris Hemsworth, and then there you are, looking awkward and pathetically plain-looking. Different people have different body structures and skin tones, so it is only normal to see that not every piece of outfit will suit everyone. Dress like your age and body type, do not try to be too ambitious and overdo everything. In contrast, some clothing that you might deem as repugnant will turn out to look good on you, seriously.

3) Note the fashion trends that never go out of style

If you belong to the “do-not-care-about-latest-trends” or no time to keep a lookout, you will have to at least bear in mind some of the trends that never go out of style. This section will be separated for the males and females. We begin for males:

  • Plain crew neck T-shirt– Always look good for a casual outing with friends and family.
  • Black leather shoes- Undoubtedly stylish and always a good fit for events or work.
  • Dark straight jeans- Essential need that every man should own, always come in handy.
  • Leather belt- Perfect for jeans, dress pants and sometimes even bermudas.
  • Classic black tuxedo suit- one that you will automatically turn to for formal events to look sharp.

For the females:

  • Skinny or straight jeans- Already an essential for men, jeans will never go out of style for women too.
  • Collared shirts- Good for many different occasions as they are designed in many ways.
  • Little black dress- Known to make you look slimmer than usual, versatile for many occasions.
  • A pair of black pumps- Fits and matches many different types of attire, an essential must-have.

4) There is no need to go for the logo every time

“Have you seen the latest Louis Vuitton bag?” or “Oh my god, the latest Adidas Superstars is so nice, I’m going save up to buy it.”

It is just a brand and guess what, you are paying so much for the brand and their logo. Yes, we get the idea that they are “authentic” and look really astounding, but is it really worth your money? There should be a common understanding that if you have the extra cash, by all means enjoy the luxury brands available. On the other hand, if you are cash-tight and want to spend your cash wisely, go for the more affordable ones, make full use of your budget. Clothes that you buy from more affordable stores can have more defined style than those with logos, really.

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